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Thanksgiving season is upon us and since our Air Force son Nicholas really wanted to see his cousins before he redeploys in two weeks…
So the Bruns-Kylers took a quick trip to Virginia (plus it was cheaper to go before Thanksgiving 😂🦃🍁.)
It had been almost 10 ten years since we’d gotten this side of the family together and it sure was fun to connect and see how everyone is growing up.
Family get-togethers should be a time for joy, connection, and gratitude.
Yet, for many families, holidays bring tension and drama. With a bit of planning and mindfulness, you can make family gatherings more harmonious and enjoyable for everyone.
Here are some practical tips to create a peaceful holiday atmosphere:
Acknowledge differences: Every family has its quirks and unique dynamics. Accept that perfection is unrealistic and aim to enjoy the gathering for what it is.
Focus on gratitude: Remind yourself of the blessings in your life and approach the gathering with a positive mindset.
Know your triggers: If certain topics or individuals tend to cause tension, plan how you’ll handle these situations calmly.
Delegate responsibilities: Share the workload to reduce stress. Assign tasks like cooking, setting the table, or cleaning to different family members.
Set boundaries: If the gathering is at your home, communicate clear expectations about timing, house rules, and contributions.
Organize group activities: Games, puzzles, or watching holiday movies can keep everyone focused on fun rather than feuds.
Celebrate traditions: Cooking a special recipe, sharing family stories, or taking a group photo can foster a sense of connection and joy.
Have a backup plan: If things become tense, suggest a change of scenery, such as going outside or starting a new activity.
Steer clear of divisive discussions: Politics, religion, and controversial family matters can quickly escalate. Change the subject if things get heated.
Practice active listening: Acknowledging others’ opinions without argument can help diffuse tension.
Use humor: Light-hearted jokes can shift the mood and help everyone relax.
Know your limits: If you feel overwhelmed, it’s okay to step away or even leave early if necessary.
Be kind to yourself: Don’t take family drama personally. Often, it’s not about you but about underlying dynamics.
Remember, the holidays are about togetherness, not perfection. By focusing on the positives, setting healthy boundaries, and staying calm, you can create a warm and memorable family gathering. Wishing you a drama-free and joyful holiday season!
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Karl Bruns-Kyler is a Medicare insurance broker and independent Medicare agent licensed to help Medicare recipients in thirty states around the country, including:
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